choice
06.09.18 | 6:21 pm
it seems i can only think of my future in terms of blocks of time (certain degrees taking 2-5 years, for example, or this teaching in france program). it's easier to digest that way.
it gives me less choice, i think.
i was thinking earlier about how i tie other people to my opportunities, like i see my relationships through this lens of "this is where my life can go." eric: murray. matt: colorado. that random dude mish: england. it dramatically decreases the stakes in the choices i have to make. the choices are clearer.
now, on my own, these choices are much harder. much more difficult. because they only depend on, rely on me. [how, how, how terrifying.]