my stomach feels weird every night
14.10.20 | 9:13 pm
it still sucks, but it was the right decision.
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i paid off nearly half of what was still owed on my student loan today, and now i only owe $700 and then it's gone. so once i get my next paycheck, i'll just pay it off, and that'll be that, i suppose.
then i can keep throwing money at my savings. (since i started teaching for real again, i've been throwing at least $1,000 in my savings each month -- closer to $1,300.) i am very lucky to live here, in a cheap area, for free in my parents' house, without any real bills.
my baby brother was talking about buying a lot down the street and building a house and it just reminded me of how young i feel about so many things. buying a house feels so, so far away from me. everything like that does. those classic "adulthood" markers -- i haven't hit that many of them, really.
not that i haven't gotten great things in exchange. but still.
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things already feel... boring.
i already need something to spice this up.
but alas, here i am, and everything is... bland.
i know a lot of people say that interesting things will happen when you least expect them, but really, i think it's all bullshit.
i am trying to make a list of things i should do during my "year at home." like, in an effort to take control, make it interesting. i don't know if it will work. but i can't hurt.
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we can be the kinds of friends who send each other links to apartments and ask each other language questions and that can honestly be enough.